Helping Your Dog Cope with Separation Anxiety as You Return to Work

As the world slowly adjusts to a post-pandemic reality, many pet owners are preparing to transition back to the office. However, this change can bring about anxiety for our beloved pets who have grown accustomed to having us around all day. To shed light on this issue, Lori Riegler, owner of Off Leash Milwaukee, recently sat down for an interview with Milwaukee PBS. In this segment, she shared insights into the challenges faced by dogs dealing with separation anxiety, while our friend Jennifer Pratt from Wag the Dog & Company provided valuable tips on helping our pets adjust to our absence. Let's explore the different types of anxiety your dog might experience, along with strategies to ease the transition back to work.

Identifying Types of Anxiety

Just like humans, dogs can experience different forms of anxiety. Understanding these types can help you address their specific needs more effectively:

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Separation Anxiety: Separation anxiety is the most common type of anxiety among dogs when their owners leave. Dogs with separation anxiety experience intense distress and panic when separated from their owners. This condition is characterized by symptoms such as excessive barking, destructive behavior (such as chewing furniture or digging), pacing, and house soiling. Dogs with separation anxiety often have a strong attachment to their owners, and being left alone triggers their anxiety. They may bark excessively as a way to express their distress and communicate their anxiety. Additionally, they may engage in destructive behaviors as a coping mechanism, exhibit restlessness and pacing, have accidents indoors, and even attempt to escape.

Generalized Anxiety: Some dogs are prone to chronic anxiety, which means they experience anxiety even in the absence of specific triggers. This condition, known as generalized anxiety disorder or anxiety disorder, is characterized by a constant state of anxiety and worry. Dogs with chronic anxiety may display restlessness, hyperactivity, and excessive grooming, among other signs. They may appear constantly on edge, unable to relax, and may exhibit heightened vigilance. Even minor changes in their environment can cause heightened anxiety, and they may have an exaggerated response to stressors.

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Social Anxiety: Dogs with social anxiety may feel uncomfortable in the presence of other animals or new people. This type of anxiety is often rooted in fear or a lack of confidence in social situations. Socially anxious dogs may exhibit avoidance behavior, such as trying to move away, hiding behind their owners, or seeking a safe spot to retreat from the situation. Trembling is another common sign of social anxiety, as dogs may shake or tremble when faced with unfamiliar animals or people. Excessive panting is also observed in socially anxious dogs, and they may display attempts to hide or find hiding spots to escape social situations that make them uncomfortable. Additionally, socially anxious dogs may exhibit hypervigilance, constantly scanning their environment for potential threats.

Helping Your Dog Adjust

Fortunately, there are several strategies you can employ to help your furry companion adapt to your absence:

Gradual Departures: Start by leaving your dog alone for short periods and gradually increase the duration over time. This step-by-step process helps them become accustomed to your absence and reduces their anxiety levels. Additionally, before you leave, offer your dog a treat or provide them with a special toy they enjoy. This creates a positive association with your departure, making the experience more pleasant for them. Maintaining a calm demeanor during departures and arrivals is also crucial. Avoid making a big fuss, as this can inadvertently reinforce their anxiety. Instead, keep the greetings and goodbyes low-key.

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Establish a Routine: Dogs thrive on predictability, and establishing a consistent daily routine is crucial for their well-being. Setting regular feeding times, exercise sessions, and playtime helps provide structure and stability in their lives. Consistent feeding times allow dogs to anticipate and understand when they will be fed, promoting a sense of security. Regular exercise sessions help expend their physical and mental energy in a positive way, preventing restlessness and promoting overall health. Alongside exercise, dedicated playtime and mental stimulation engage their minds and prevent boredom. Establishing a consistent bedtime and wake-up routine contributes to a healthy sleep pattern, while structured potty breaks help prevent accidents and provide routine for their bathroom needs. Finally, setting aside quality time for bonding strengthens the human-dog relationship and helps reduce anxiety. By establishing a structured routine, dogs feel more secure and less anxious, knowing what to expect from their day.

Safe Spaces: To help your dog feel secure and comfortable when you're not home, it's important to create a designated area for them. This could be a crate, a specific room, or a cozy corner with their bed and toys. The area should be enriched with familiar scents and engaging toys to keep your dog occupied. By providing a designated space, you give your dog a sense of security and a place to retreat to in your absence. Including familiar scents, such as an item with your scent, helps provide comfort and reassurance. Adding comfortable bedding and toys that mentally stimulate your dog can help them relax and redirect their focus. Gradually introduce the designated area, making it a positive experience through treats and encouragement. Remember, the designated area is not meant to confine your dog indefinitely, but rather to provide a safe and comfortable space when you're not home. By creating a well-equipped designated area, you can help alleviate your dog's anxiety and ensure they have a cozy and engaging space to enjoy.

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Enrichment and Mental Stimulation: Engaging your dog's mind with interactive toys, treat puzzles, or Kong toys filled with delicious treats is an excellent way to provide mental stimulation and alleviate anxiety and boredom. Interactive toys, such as puzzle feeders or treat-dispensing toys, require your dog to figure out how to access the treats, keeping their minds engaged and active. These toys not only provide mental stimulation but also offer a rewarding challenge that taps into their natural problem-solving instincts. Kong toys, filled with tasty treats or peanut butter, can keep your dog entertained for extended periods. The process of extracting the treats from the Kong engages their senses and provides a satisfying and engaging activity. To keep the toys interesting and prevent boredom, consider rotating them periodically. Introducing new toys or alternating between different ones ensures that your dog remains curious and excited about their playtime.

Calming Techniques: When addressing your dog's anxiety, it can be beneficial to explore calming techniques that help create a soothing environment. Playing soothing music specifically designed for dogs can have a calming effect on their nervous system. The gentle melodies and rhythms can help drown out external noises and create a sense of relaxation. Another option is to use pheromone diffusers, which emit synthetic pheromones that mimic the calming scent a mother dog produces to comfort her puppies. These diffusers can help create a calming atmosphere and reduce anxiety in your dog. Additionally, some dogs respond well to anxiety wraps or vests that provide gentle pressure around their body. The pressure can have a calming effect by providing a sense of security and reducing anxiety-related symptoms. It's important to try different techniques and observe your dog's response to determine what works best for them.

The Power of Our Village

During this transitional period, it's important to remember that you're not alone. Building a supportive community around you and your dog can significantly ease the transition:

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Doggy Daycare and Walking Services: Enroll your dog in doggy daycare a few times a week or hire a dog walker. These services provide companionship, exercise, and mental stimulation, reducing anxiety and loneliness for your dog.

Playdates: Organize playdates with other dog owners in your area. Not only will your dog enjoy socializing, but you'll also connect with fellow pet owners who understand your concerns. Supervised play can help your dog build positive associations with other animals and reduce anxiety.

Training and Behavioral Support: Seek professional assistance from trainers or behaviorists who specialize in separation anxiety. They can provide personalized guidance and exercises to help your dog overcome their anxiety. Positive reinforcement-based training techniques can be effective in changing your dog's emotional response to being alone.

As we prepare to return to our regular work routines, it's crucial to prioritize our furry friends' mental well-being. The interview between Lori, owner of Off Leash Milwaukee, and Jennifer Pratt from Wag the Dog & Company highlights the challenges of dog anxiety and provides valuable insights into helping our pets adjust. By understanding the types of anxiety dogs experience, implementing coping strategies, and leveraging the support of our village, we can make this transition smoother for our four-legged companions. Remember, a little patience, love, and understanding can go a long way in helping our dogs thrive even when we're not home. With proper care and attention, we can ensure our dogs feel safe, secure, and content in our absence.